6 Lessons from Disney Movies

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  • Basically, however you feel on the inside, you wind up acting upon  – and wanting to make others feel. So, if you’re angry on the inside – you’ll act out in anger – and wind up making others feel angry. If you feel loving on the inside –you’ll want to do loving actions – and make others feel loved.Meaning? If there’s someone who’s mean to you – a bully – you should know it’s because they feel bad inside themselves – angry inside themselves.
  • Those who have received little love will offer only what they have if they don’t cultivate good behavior and values. All those characters who are mean in Disney movies, don’t have a lot of love in their lives – and so they choose seeking power, to try to make up for lack of love. Whenever you choose power over love you will never find true happiness.
  • Bad Disney characters treat even their friends badly and consequently their friends don’t love them continuing thus the circle.
  • Thus, having little love for others or themselves, they all start to feel jealous, to talk about not loving who they are – as they are. As a result of not having love – they pursue power – to try to fill themselves up inside. But power is like junk food for the spirit. Love is like healthy food for the spirit. Power might feel tasty and good in the moment – but it will never be satisfying – never fill you up.
  • Yep, no matter how much power you get – you will always feel empty. And you look for more and more. But because power is like junk food, the more you get, the sicker you feel inside – not happier.
  • In contrast, the good characters seek love – not power. And the more love these good characters get – the more loving friends they enjoy – and loving acts they do – the happier they become – and the more self-fulfilled they feel.
  • Love is the ultimate super power. And teamwork is another super power. When you join loving forces with those you love, you can accomplish lots – like all the good characters in Disney movies get to enjoy.
  • All the bad characters in Disney movies are always jealous of something that someone else has. The evil characters never take time to find out what their “true inner power” might be ( their “true inner passion”).
  • Because these bad characters feel as if they don’t have a “true inner power” – they try to take power from others. They particularly like to take power from those who are “in their true power” – the good characters who have some special inner power (aka: a passion for singing, a passion for a special love connection, a passion for swimming, the ability to grow magical hair.)
  • In contrast, the good characters in these films take the time to fully step into their own true power – so they have no desire to take power.  The good characters are focused on following their heart’s calling (singing, swimming, spending loving time with soul mates and soul friends, going towards the light in a distant village) And when these good characters take the time to pursue their own “true inner power” (their heart’s calling) they ironically wind up tapping into an increased sense of ” inner power” –thereby increasing self love and happiness.
  • Meaning? When you follow your heart’s calling,  you wind up becoming your most powerful self.  You don’t need to take power from others if you can tap into your own inner power.
  • Power’s okay to want to – as long as you are loving in your use of it – and use your power for good not evil, to make people happy otherwise no one would benefit . As Spiderman admits, “with great power comes great responsibility. “
  • Don’t just listen to what others tell you – watch their actions: look at how they treat those around them.  If they’re mean to their  “so called friends” – then that’s a warning they might be mean to you.
  • It’s important to give people a chance to learn lessons and change their bad ways– if a mistake is made  – and someone acts badly.
  • In fact, many of the good people/mermaids/mermen in these films made mistakes. They didn’t act as their highest best self. But they all apologized for their bad behavior – looked for the lesson to be learned – and expressed wanting to grow from their mistakes. They even followed up their apology with a positive action which showed they learned their lesson – and were choosing not to do this bad behavior anymore.
  • Meaning? Even if somebody does something bad – it doesn’t necessarily mean they are forever bad. Also – even if YOU do something bad – it does not mean YOU are forever bad. Each of us can act badly at times – make mistakes –or act badly. What’s most important is to always want to learn and grow from any misbehavior.

source: Notsalom.com


In 2014 I will Let Go to What isn’t of Service

1394257_750998641580934_383985498_n“My year is already booked with love, success, happiness, joy, freedom and achievement of my dreams. 

th love, success, happiness, joy, freedom and achievement of my dreams. 

 I was thinking of my life kind of like a bookshelf. A bookshelf should be lined with valuable books only.  I need a New SCRIPT. And my bookshelf of life needs space for new books, new chapters, with HAPPY endings. 

Because if I HOLD ON to THIS (unhealthy attitudes, toxic relationships etc), I’ll LET GO of what I deserve. And If I let go of what I DESERVE, I’ll be holding on to YOU but letting go of ME. And all that spells is me being UNHAPPY.

But right now, I chose to be free and I chose to be me. I love you. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH TO LET THIS GO IN PEACE. Please let me be. It’s time for me to be HAPPY!!! Please set me FREE!!”

by Shanel Cooper-Sykes


See yourself AS greatness. AS being extraordinary. AS
being the leader. AS having money in the bank. AS being
powerful. AS being happily married. AS an entrepreneur. AS being a homeowner. AS driving that new Mercedes. AS loved. AS desired. AS blessed. AS happy. AS peaceful. AS perfect.
And because you see yourself that way (because that’s
who you truly are), you will almost magically make this new year BIGGER and BETTER than ever before. THIS IS YOUR TIME TO THRIVE!!!
“With the new year here, I encourage you this:
Resolve to do nothing.

Instead, allow yourself to be.

Allow yourself to be seen

To be heard

To be loved
Unabashedly, unconditionally, uncompromisingly, unquestioningly,
completely and totally loved.

Allow yourself to be who you are
A child of Love,
Beautiful, whole, free.

With every fiber of my being, from the depths of my soul, I know this will be YOUR best year yet.
How could it not? You’ve got angels. You are love. Be!

I look forward to 2014, and I thank you for taking the journey with me to learn, laugh, let go, and be.

With love to all, Steff” by Angel’s Insight

Be the Change you Want to See

Whenever you think people are withholding from you – praise, appreciation, assistance, loving care, and so on – give it to them. You don’t have it? Act as if you have it and it will come. Then, soon after you start giving, you will start receiving. You cannot receive what you don’t give.
Erhart tolle, A New Earth



“Setting an example is not the main means of influencing another, it is the only means.” – Albert Einstein

Seth Godin

The masses are average. And by definition, we have a surplus of average.
Don’t be different just to be different. Be different to be better.


Try it out, give it to someone. What is something nice that you could do for a friend, family member or even a stranger today? Once you have thought of it, do it, and then move on to somebody else. Before long you’ll start seeing results, try it, it’s contagious.

Happiness comes from spiritual wealth,
not material wealth.  Happiness comes from giving, not getting.
If we try hard, to bring happiness to others,  we cannot stop it from coming to us also.  To get joy, we must give it and to keep joy,
we must scatter it.  ~ John Templeton ~
Antonny Robbins
Never spend more than 10 percent of your time on the problem, and always spend at least 90 percent of your time on the solution.

Every successful person I know has the capacity to remain centered, clear and powerful in the midst of emotional “storms.”


Worry less. Smile more. Accept criticism. Take responsibility. Be quiet and listen. LOVE LIFE. Embrace change.
The bend in the road is not the end of the road unless you refuse to take the turn. -Unknown
Bless your body, and it will bless you back. This is your sacred task today. – Debbie Ford
The secret of passion is knowing your daily purpose:http://bit.ly/18gr5U8


photo source: Social Media Today
“Social media is not about the exploitation of technology but service to community.” — Simon Mainwaring
“Don’t let so-called experts set standards for you that took decades for them to accomplish. Instead, start small and work with passion, and the profit will follow.”


Without the #knowledge of making money, the world pushes you around
“Take a walk outside – it will serve you far more than pacing around in your mind.”
― Rasheed Ogunlaru
“Negotiation and discussion are the greatest weapons we have for promoting peace and development.” ~ Nelson Mandela at the summit of the Gulf Cooperation Council, Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates , 7 December 1998
Sting shared Rainforest Fund quote
“If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him…We need not wait to see what others do.” – Mahatma Gandhi
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” ~ Steve Jobs
“You can tell a lot about a person by carefully examining their environment. Contrary to popular belief, people are not the reflection of their environment nearly as much as we might think. Environment is a reflection of the people. Change the people for the better, and the environment will change for the better as well. Our attitude is the environment we carry with us during the day. It proclaims to the world what we think of ourselves and indicates the sort of person we have made up our minds to be. It is the person we will become. What does your attitude proclaim to the world about you today?” – Bob Proctor >> WATCH THIS VIDEO:http://ow.ly/p2jBF

If you are sabotaging your relationships, it indicates that something inside you feels you do not deserve to be in a happy loving relationship. You do deserve love, so you need to uncover the source of this false belief inside and heal it with a true awareness of your spiritual value.
You may need the assistance of a counselor or a trustworthy friend who can be completely honest with you to help you through this healing process.
Once the old sabotaging belief has been healed and replaced with a real recognition of your essential loving self, you will no longer undermine your relationships.
Think and Grow Rich
Boredom is the absence of a creative idea. But there is a simple cure – begin to think immediately of a better way to do something. The creative juices are within you but you must turn on the tap.

Those who are bored are not living; they are dying. When their heart stops beating, it will be a mere formality. The best way to do anything has never been thought of. Get on a creative improvement kick and jar others mentally into the same activity.” – Bob Proctor >> WATCH THIS VIDEO: http://ow.ly/p2jBF

best-astronomy-photographs-2013-guiding-light_71920_600x450photo source: National Geographic

“Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.” – Christiane Northrup
“Our ultimate freedom is the right and power to decide how anybody or anything outside ourselves will affect us.” – Stephen R. Covey

Manage Yourself: your Most Important Employee

“1. Assess your strengths and weaknesses.

Once you’ve gotten an objective perspective on yourself from others, mentally stand back and ask yourself: “If I were managing this person, how would I use the strengths and work around the weaknesses?”

2. Set reasonable and stretch goals.

Have two sets of goals: a minimal set which represents what you can reasonably expect from yourself, and stretch goals that represent what’s difficult but still achievable.

In other words, the difference between what’s definitely reasonable and possibly achievable is time.

3. Stop micromanaging yourself.

However, while most people realize this, many people blithely micromanage their own activities.The cure is to think about the results you want rather than the tasks you should do.

4. Regularly evaluate performance.

If you fail to do this, and just depend upon your “gut feeling” of whether you’re performing the way you’d like, I guarantee you that you will eventually (and probably quickly) drift off course.

5. Manage your emotions.

Think of your emotions as “behaviors you do” in response to events. If you decide that you will “do” joy (i.e. enjoy) every day, you will.

6. Take responsibility for your decisions.

The flip side of decision-making, however, is taking responsibility for outcomes.While you do not have control over events, you do (and did) have control over the decisions that you made in response to those events. ” Source: Inc.com



photo source: National Geographic

You are Beautiful by Neale Donald Walsch


On this day of your life I believe God wants you to know…

…that you are beautiful.

Yes, you. Look at yourself in the mirror. If

God has ever created anything in the universe

more beautiful than you, it is a secret. Because

nowhere can it be found.

You are a being of beauty. Share the beauty

of you today, and you will experience it!

Love, Your Friend….Neale Donald Walsch